Bride and Groom's first dance during Red Oak Valley Wedding Reception - Owensville, MO

Whether you’re dreaming of saying your vows indoors or outdoors, we have the perfect venue for your fairytale wedding!

Decorative Swirl

We offer two indoor, climate-controlled, rustic-chic barns for your ceremony and reception and a grandly appointed chapel, so weather is never a worry when you book your wedding at Red Oak Valley.

If an outdoor affair is your preference, we have several gorgeous outdoor ceremony sites. Tie the knot waterfront using the beautiful arbor dockside at the lake, let the rolling hills and enchanting oak grove be your backdrop with a sheerly draped arbor, start your happily ever after in front of a symphony of color from a fiery Missouri sunset in our courtyard, or choose to say your “I do’s” near one of our charming barns or fabulous farmhouses as your backdrop.

We can accommodate and amaze up to 350 guests, and at Red Oak Valley, your chairs, décor, linens, and table accessories are always included! Visit our “Something Borrowed Something New” (link to decoration shop) decoration shop to see the extensive décor selection.

Your Red Oak Valley wedding reservation also includes overnight accommodations (link to accommodations) at either our fantastic farmhouse or southern style plantation home!

At Red Oak Valley your dream wedding possibilities are absolutely endless – and your wedding photos are sure to be remarkable!

Mother & Son Reception Dance - Red Oak Valley
Bride & Groom First Dance - Red Oak Valley Wedding Reception
Father & Bride First Dance - Red Oak Valley Reception
Bride & Groom Red Barn Reception - Red Oak Valley

The Red Barn

When you choose Red Oak Valley’s Rustic Red Barn for your wedding venue, you get 9000 square feet of fabulous farm wedding feels ready to accommodate 200 guests, featuring gorgeous wood walls, elegant lighting, and all the space your guests could need.


Rental of the Rustic Red Barn includes:


  • Overnight accommodations in the Fabulous Farmhouse, a two-story retreat, featuring 7 bedrooms, a 46-foot wrap-around porch, and amazing views of our expansive estate. 

  • The Charming Hen House for the bridal party to prepare, including two antique beauty stations, a fireplace, a kitchenette, a changing room, and a bathroom.

  • The Handsome Hay Loft for the groomsmen to relax, including a gorgeous chandelier and large windows overlooking the stunning courtyard.

  • Wedding décor and accessories from our “Something Borrowed, Something New” decoration shop.  

  • Access to our gorgeous estate!


When you choose our Elegant White Barn for your wedding venue you get 11,000 square feet of country-chic design able to accommodate and amaze around 300 guests. This gorgeous setting is the pride of Red Oak Valley as one of the only white barns available for weddings in Missouri. This exquisite space features hand hewn beams from the early 1800’s, a 26-foot skylight, 28-foot front windows, 3 large crystal chandeliers, 3 sets of gorgeous double doors leading to the 22,000 square foot courtyard, and an early 1900’s antique bar with a stained-glass ceiling.


Rental of the Elegant White Barn includes:


  • Use of the Red Oak Valley Charming Chapel featuring 6000 square feet of rustic elegance, a grand entryway with gorgeous knotty alder double doors, a beadboard ceiling, and shiplap walls.

  • Overnight accommodations in the Beautiful Brickhouse, featuring 5 well-appointed bedrooms, 5 bathrooms, 2 kitchens, a bar, a media room with a TV, a huge walkout porch overlooking 250 beautiful acres of valleys filled with our namesake red oak trees, an outdoor patio, and an outdoor cooking station.

  • The Bridal Suite featuring a two-story bride’s room, with private bathroom, shiplap walls and beadboard ceilings, an early 1900’s beauty station made of marble, a kitchenette, and large windows overlooking the valley we’re named after.

  • The Groom’s Lounge featuring space for the groomsmen to relax, a private bathroom with shower, a kitchenette, and country chic shiplap walls and beadboard ceiling.

  • Wedding décor and accessories from our “Something Borrowed, Something New” decoration shop.  

  • Access to our gorgeous estate!

Red Oak Valley - White Barn

The White Barn

(Under construction / Bookings for 2022-2023)

The Charming Chapel - Red Oak Valley - Owensville, MO

The Charming Chapel

Red Oak Valley offers an incredibly Charming Chapel unlike any other. This exquisitely designed building features 6000 square feet of rustic elegance, a grand entryway any bride would be ecstatic to walk through with gorgeous knotty alder double doors, a bead board ceiling, and shiplap walls. This chapel can accommodate 300 awe inspired guests.


A reservation for the Chapel Includes:


  • Wooden chairs for up to 300 guests

  • Access to the estate grounds for unforgettable photography.

Reception Horse Drawn Carriage

The Estate Grounds

Red Oak Valley is aptly named for the incredibly scenic rolling hills and red oak groves in the valleys encompassing the 1000-acre estate. Access to the grounds is included with any package, ensuring you will have the most remarkable wedding photography in the Midwest!

Wedding Vows

Of course, we think our rustic wedding venues offer the most phenomenal views in all of Missouri, probably in the Midwest, but don’t take our word for it!

See what our happy couples have to say.